So yeh, i'm a really creepy person who loves stalking couples as they're happily walking through a park. This is what i do, this is what i am, love me for it.
I realized how everyone is getting a relationship in university these days, and those made in high school are quickly destroyed within a couple of months of school (most of these due to long distance).
So why even bother? When you enter a relationship and you know you guys can't be doing stuff together at least weekly (activities include the picture), then why promise each other you guys would hold on when you indubitably will break the promise?
I'm not saying that all long-term relationships will die off, i know of a couple of long-term relationships (like my brother's... kind of... not really a long d...iunno) that will work out. But it's just sad to see people break apart due to distance.
But I guess people changing is also inevitable, going to schools where their social structure is different might make 2 people madly in love with each other grow to forget their old selves and unable to love each other's new selves.
I guess that's why a friend of mine didn't allow the sad consequence to happen at all. I can kind of see how she didn't want things to fall apart slowly, and would much rather have a clean fast cut.
But how about when the long distance relationship does work? What if the person is 2000+ miles away but at the end of the day, you two still love each other and everything works out? Then wouldn't the fight just make the relationship just much better? After this, a small fight about the lifting the toilet seat will seem like nothing compared to the 10 years that you guys had to fight for each other.
Sigh...relationships are hard.
-Canon Ma
I wonder if my brother will kill me for mentioning him in this post, teehee.
CUTTING IT CLOSE LOL.
ReplyDeleteThat's why I'd rather wait until university to find a guy who will always be there for me :)
ReplyDeleteNot only that, but he'll hopefully know what he wants to do in life, he'll be working towards his future, and on the whole it'll be more stable than a high school relationship where the maturity level is not quite there yet.
Long distance relationships do work sometimes, and I admire those couples that are still together after being so far apart, but in reality, not every relationship is like the ones we see in dramas; not everyone can wait 3, 6, 10 years to be with the one they loved a long time ago and still love now. In fact, that's just the way it is: you loved a person who has, undoubtedly changed over the years.
Yes, relationships are hard. :)
water park with the tennis court :)
ReplyDeleteLOL JING HOLY SHIT WTF??? yo Gordan you know canon? lmfao? #@()*@#$(*@ this is wild o.O
ReplyDeletejust for my own curiousity, ur "friend" ur referring to is the perosn i'm thinking of rite? ^
Richard, just don't mention it.
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